Strengthen Yourself in the Lord - Pt. 2

I've been so encouraged by Bill Johnson's book Strengthen Yourself in the Lord, and wanted to share some of the gleanings that have particularly touched me. This is the second post, so far, of the things I've been learning from this wonderful book. To read the first part, go to Strengthen Yourself in the Lord – Pt. 1.

The enemy uses lies to make problems appear bigger than the solutions we carry.

God never sets us up to fail…only to grow.

Staying Connected to Your Destiny is the title of Chapter 2, and the focus is on knowing who we are in Christ and who He created us individually to be. One of the key phrases that stood out to me was

You become what you behold.

What do we fix our eyes on? Where is our focus most of the time? Do we zoom in on the problems, hardships, frustrations, inadequacies, and let them take center stage?

Scripture exhorts us to ‘fix our eyes upon Jesus’ (Heb 12:2), and the famous hymn nails it on the head:

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth,
Shall grow strangely dim,
In the light of His glory and grace.

That’s the point the Bill makes in this chapter…the problems we face become insurmountable when we focus on them, but they fade into the background when confronted with the glory of Jesus. That doesn’t mean they disappear and we live a carefree life. It just means that we recognize the omnipotence of our King, and choose to dwell on His character and nature. The more we come to know Him, the more we become like Him, and we can face the challenges of this world with greater courage and confidence.

In YWAM we teach about developing that deep, intimate walk with the Lord, where we hear His voice, understand His will for our lives, and follow Him wherever He leads. The fruitfulness in our lives flows from this place of intimacy with the Lord.

Johnson reminds us to ‘jealously guard our intimacy with the Lord’…it is the key to stewarding our hearts. Proverbs 4:23 says, ‘Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life.”

When we face challenging situations, we can look at them from two angles:

1. The situation is a test that proves and strengthens our character and faith to walk in our purpose, and shows God that He can entrust us with more of Himself, or

2. The situation is a temptation away from God into bitterness, doubt, anxiety and disappointment.

If we are not stewarding our hearts and guarding our intimacy with the Lord, we may find ourselves blaming God, wallowing in self-pity, and basically allowing satan to run riot in our lives.
But when we fix our eyes on Jesus, the reality of who He is starts to flow into our lives and transforms us into His likeness. We grow in our faith. We overcome the obstacles. We win the battles.

I want to live a victorious Christian life. I know what happens when I blame God for my hardships and turn my back on Him. For 13 years I experienced the void of living without Him. I never want to go through that again.

Help me, Lord, to see You and Your power and Your glory, rather than fret about whatever problem I am facing at the time. Help me to remember that You are with me in my battles, and that You already won the victory! Help me to grow in faith, in perseverance, and in maturity as we walk through this journey together. Help me to become more like You, Jesus.

Princesses, Daddies and Batmen

Just a week after we got back from furlough, the string of Birthdays began, starting with
3 year old Keziah...

Displaying some of her presents

At the pool party with her friends

Her princess birthday cake

Under the skirt!

Two weeks later it was John's birthday...his was a little less exciting...he just got a lemon meringue pie!




Then it was 7 year old Aidan's turn, and he wanted a Batman theme...

BatAidan!

Aidan's friends at his pool party

The Batcake

It's a lot of work, especially the cakes, but it's worth the joy on their faces.

Metamorphosis

I look at my life, my character, my attitudes, and
I see the miraculous transformation that only God could accomplish through His Holy Spirit.


I used to be like that ugly Monarch larva, crawling around on my belly through the muck of life.


But God lifted me up, and wrapped His loving arms around me, and began to work in my heart, in my mind, in my spirit, in my life. He breathed new life into these dry bones. He conformed me, and continues to transform me.



Every day I emerge a little bit more, being made into the likeness of the Son a little bit more, shedding the old me a little bit more.

How can I resist such a metamorphosis?

Strengthen Yourself in the Lord - Pt 1

I'm reading Bill Johnson's Strengthen Yourself in the Lord, and am encouraged and challenged by the strategy King David used to face tough situations. The basic premise of this book is that today's believers need to learn how to 'count it all joy' when facing turmoil at home, work, or within our families. How not to crumble in the face of adversity. How to encourage ourselves when no one else is able, or willing, to encourage us.

So the first chapter looks at the life of David, a man after God's own heart, who faced serious rejection and persecution.

Rejection 1 - King Saul, who had treated him like his own son and given his daughter in marriage to David, turned against him in jealousy and pursued him for a decade to try to take his life.

Rejection 2 - David's own countrymen, who he had just saved from the Philistines, were ready to hand him over to Saul.

Rejection 3 - The Philistines, who had welcomed David into their territory and given him a city to live in, refused to let him and his men go into battle with them...they sent him back...rejected.

Rejection 4 - David's own men, all social outcasts themselves, upon learning that their city had been burned and all their families and possessions captured, turned on David and wanted to stone him.

When David stood alone, with the whole world against him, and his life threatened on all sides, what did he do? Who could he turn to? David's entire future, and his very life, depended on his reaction to this dire situation.

1 Samuel 30:6 records David's response: "But David strengthened himself in the Lord."

David didn't collapse in a heap of self-pity, or start casting blame, or even run away. Instead, he reached out to God...he clung to his Maker and he was strengthened. What was it that enabled David to keep his heart and faith in God steadfast, even in that darkest of days?

1. David had seen God deliver him from the paw of the lion and the bear, and from the giant Philistine Goliath, and those experiences had built a faith in him that enabled him to rely completely on God for the victory. We have to face the battles and see God win in order to grow in our faith.

2. David led a life of worship and praise long before he was anointed to be King of Israel. In the quiet of the countryside, tending his sheep, David poured his heart out to the Lord, and connected with Him heart to heart. We also need to connect heart to heart with God.

Those years of rejection and testing groomed David to handle the glory and responsibility of the Kingship that awaited him. It strengthened his ability to believe and walk in the Word over his life that he would become King of Israel, even when the circumstances seemed to completely oppose and deny his destiny.

Some questions I'm asking myself:

What challenges or tests am I facing that seem to threaten the calling God's put on my life?
How do I respond in the face of rejection, when there is no one left to encourage me but myself?

Newsflash!! The Caped Crusader hangs up his coat

The Caped Crusader with Great Granny Margie

The Caped Crusader in the forest

The Caped Crusader picking peaches

From Aug 15th through Oct 30th, the Caped Crusader, aka Noah Wright, fearlessly protected the Wright family on their travels around the Pacific Northwest (USA) and the city of Boston (UK). With undaunted courage, the Caped Crusader defended against potential enemies at the beach, in the speedboat, near the campfire, on the Hiawatha trail, at the park, and even in the dangerous aisles of Wal-Mart and Tesco. Always alert and ready for danger, the Caped Crusader refused to be caught with his guard down, and wore his infamous Raincoat Cape around the clock, including in bed. The few times he reluctantly relinquished his Cape for washing, he diligently stood by the washer and dryer until the Cape was clean and dry, and immediately replaced it on his golden locks.

On Wednesday, the 29th of October, the Wright family returned to Uganda, but the Caped Crusader remained caped, even in the African heat. The following day, the Wrights drove to their family home in Arua. As they entered the compound, the welcoming group of friends and teammates surrounded the truck, jumping and ululating and waving leafy branches. The Caped Crusader remained in his car seat for several minutes, observing the pandemonium and surveying the landscape. Once he ascertained that they truly had reached home, he jumped out of the truck, leaving his faithful Cape still tangled in the car seat straps inside. He never put it on again.

His mission was complete. Noah Wright and his family were safely home.

When love lasts forever...

Is it possible? I mean, can love really last forever?

Depends on how you define love, I guess.

I've been on furlough for over 3 months now, traveling around the UK and the US with my family, and for some reason the issue of divorce and dissatisfied marriages seemed to slap me in the face. It was all around me...young couples and old, friends and family. No matter the situation, pain was there. The fallout hits far more people than the original two.

I know all about the fallout...I'm a product of divorced parents. I know about that pain; what it feels like to grow up without a dad; the hurtful things kids say on the playground; the feeling that something's missing...and the hardening of the heart because the missing piece cannot be retrieved.

It's a messy thing, divorce.

As I was listening to people's stories and watching my friends in pain, I wondered, "How do we turn this Titanic around? How do we protect our marriages, and fulfill those vows we made before God and man?"

It's not THE answer, but a friend handed me a sheaf of papers one day and said, "Try that on for size." It was the 30 Day Encouragement Challenge for Wives, by Nancy Leigh DeMoss. The basic premise is that for 30 days, you're not allowed to say anything negative to your husband, or about your husband to someone else!

Yikes! I wondered if I could make it for even 1 day! On top of that, each day has specific areas in which we find something encouraging to say to our husbands.

"Dear Lord," I prayed before starting the challenge, "You know my tongue, and You know I can't do this without You. So please help me with the words that come out of this mouth, and control this horrible little rudder that so often steers my marriage onto rocky ground!"

Guess what? It was amazing. Yes, it was hard, especially the first few days, but once I got used to it, I started to see things in a whole new light. Once I quit focusing on the negative and being critical about everything, all those annoying little things seemed to lose their annoyingness. They just didn't matter that much anymore. And I started to have a whole new appreciation for my husband that was normally hidden under a cloud of criticism.

Actually verbalizing that appreciation, and actively encouraging him, was harder than it would seem, but it got easier and easier with each passing day until I started encouraging him about all kinds of things that weren't even on the challenge.

After a week or so he found out what was going on. "Ohhh," he said, "so that's what happened to you!"

Kind of embarrassing, but heh...the one thing I've learned from all this stuff is that we have to keep trying to build our marriages stronger. I hate eating that humble pie, but if it means getting closer to my husband, and replacing destructive habits with loving ones, I'm ready to do it. Because I want to make it work.

I know it's not easy, and I'm not judging anyone whose marriages haven't worked, but we have to ask ourselves, "What kind of a legacy are we leaving our children? How committed are we to fulfilling those vows?"

There's a great movie out now that has this same encouragement challenge as it's theme, but it's called the Love Dare and the husband is the one who does it to save his marriage. The movie's called "Fireproof" and I highly recommend it. The website has a couple's quiz and full couple's check-up, if you like those sorts of things.

If you're interested in any of the ideas shared above:

30 day encouragement challenge: www.reviveourhearts.com/pdf/30DayChallenge.pdf

Fireproof:

http://www.fireproofthemovie.com/

The River of God

In Ezekiel 47, God gave Ezekiel a vision of a stream of water flowing out from the temple and down towards the wilderness. The further the stream flowed, the deeper it got, until it became a river too deep to walk across.

At New Wine in Newark, UK, this last week, Ian Parkinson talked about the river being the power of God, flowing from His temple to the wastelands, where everything was dead and lifeless. Once the river touched this wasteland, a transformation occurred that brought life and abundance and joy.

New Wine Newark: Kingdom Come

We all have wilderness times or areas in our lives that feel dead and barren, but the touch of the power of God can birth hope and life into those places. There are also wilderness areas in our communities…physical places where nothing much good happens, where there is a lot of brokenness, hurt and despair. God’s touch can restore, rebuild and renew lives and families, but the river of His grace and power must flow to those areas.

Question: Are we as Christians carriers of the power source of the God we follow? Do we bring hope and the promise of new life to the hurting people in modern-day wildernesses around us?

An interesting point is that the further away from the temple the stream flowed, the deeper it got. Translate that to today, and it says, the more we move out of the church and turn our focus towards the lost and needy, and reach out to them where they are, the more we will be releasing God’s transformational power. The goal is not to get more and more people into the church…the goal is to get more and more of the church out to the people.

If we stay ‘too close to home’ (ie. Wrapped up in lots of church activities but not impacting the lost of the world) then it’s like we’re sitting on the riverside dipping our toes in the shallow waters that just splash over our feet. But as we reach out to the broken, and spend our lives pursuing them with God’s love, we’ll go deeper and deeper into that river until we reach a point where we have to choose…do I stay where my feet can touch the ground and I have some semblance of control over my life? Or do I let go and plunge in, immersing myself in God’s river and letting Him control and direct my life? Do I trust Him enough to relinquish everything for Him?

How far in am I ready to plunge?

If we believe that Heaven really exists, and that there is no poverty, or pain, or distress for the rest of eternity, then we must recognize that now…this life on earth…is our only chance to reach out to the unlovable, to bind up the broken-hearted, to get our hands messy in messed up lives, and bring them the touch of that river that can transform their realities.

The goal is not just to save a few souls and then get rescued off this earth and taken up to Heaven…the goal is to complete the assignment Jesus gave us to bring Heaven to this earth.

PS If you want to learn more about New Wine, visit http://www.new-wine.org/